Saturday, October 18, 2025
10:30am - 12:00 pm (Eastern time)
Palmer- Ruth E. Horton, "Ruthy" Love by many also known as"MaMa Legs" to many kids in the 80's and nicknamed "Princess," by her brothers. Nicknamed "Dragonlady" by her daughters. Born on October 20, 1940, in Palmer, she peacefully passed away on September 16, 2025, at the age of 84.
Ruth graduated from Palmer High School and later continued her education at St John's School of Business. Proficient in shorthand, all while working nights at Kmart.
Ruth worked as a switchboard operator, and also drove a taxi. After raising a family, Ruth then dedicated her career as a secretary at the USGA, where her strong and independent spirit truly shined.
Ruth was a friendly vibrant soul heard by many on the CB, who loved animals, enjoyed dancing, and had a passion for Harleys and her hot rod Lincoln. She cherished her role as a Girl Scout co-leader and little girls softball league score keeper. Ruth was truly loved making a lasting impression in the hearts of all those around her.
She is survived by her loving partner, John Eastman Jr., of Palmer; her daughters, Renee E. Santos of North Brookfield, and Roxann Calkins-Renfro of Wiscasset, Maine; her brother, George Desotell of Thorndike; Niece, Angela Desotell. Ruth was also a proud grandmother/ MeMe to Jasmine GaNun, and Jade Wood, Nicholas, Garret, and Patrick Santos, and a great great-grandmother of nine. Her fur babies, Bridgett and Princess, will forever remember the kindness and love she brought into their lives.
Ruth is preceded in death by her brother Arthur Desotell and her parents, Anna E. (Chaffee) Desotell and Arthur W. Desotell. She will be deeply missed by her family and friends, Palmer 8 Ballers CB Club. Of whom will all remember her for her honest, no sugar coated advice with warmth and kindness, as she had an unwavering spirit to be reckoned with.
A session of visitation will be held at Lombard Funeral Home on Saturday, October 18, 2025 from 10:30 am -12:00pm.
In lieu of flowers memorial contributions can be made to Here Today Adopted Tomorrow P.O. Box 557 Brimfield, MA 01010.
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